{"id":3503,"date":"2018-09-05T15:40:57","date_gmt":"2018-09-05T13:40:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.safersurfing.org\/loveismore-en\/?p=3503"},"modified":"2018-12-17T11:14:18","modified_gmt":"2018-12-17T09:14:18","slug":"konstantin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.safersurfing.org\/loveismore-pl\/konstantin\/","title":{"rendered":"Konstantin"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"container\">\n<div id=\"c1515\" class=\"csc-default\">\n<h2>M\u00f3j pop\u0119d seksualny narasta\u0142 od bardzo wczesnego wieku i sta\u0142 si\u0119 dla mnie namiastk\u0105 pocieszenia i spe\u0142nienia<\/h2>\n<p class=\"bodytext\"><span lang=\"PL\">Kiedy urodzi\u0142em si\u0119 w 1953 roku, moi rodzice byli ju\u017c po rozwodzie. Alkohol i zdrady mojego ojca by\u0142y nieod\u0142\u0105cznym elementem \u017cycia naszej rodziny. Kilka lat po moich narodzinach rodzice ca\u0142kowicie zerwali ze sob\u0105 kontakt, co w pewnym sensie sta\u0142o si\u0119 dla mnie pocz\u0105tkiem nowego, innego \u017cycia. Umieszczany by\u0142em w r\u00f3\u017cnych domach dziecka. M\u00f3j pop\u0119d seksualny narasta\u0142 od bardzo wczesnego wieku i wkr\u00f3tce sta\u0142 si\u0119 dla mnie namiastk\u0105 pocieszenia i spe\u0142nienia.\u00a0<\/span><span lang=\"EN-US\">Wszystko zacz\u0119\u0142o si\u0119 od kupowania oraz kolekcjonowania pornografii.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"bodytext\"><span lang=\"PL\">Jako nastolatek pope\u0142ni\u0142em kilka przest\u0119pstw takich jak kradzie\u017ce, w\u0142amania i oszustwa, i po zakrojonych na skal\u0119 kraju poszukiwaniach sta\u0142em si\u0119 nawet bohaterem nag\u0142\u00f3wk\u00f3w w wiadomo\u015bciach. Wiele lat sp\u0119dzi\u0142em w wi\u0119zieniach i w latach 70-tych s\u0119dzia powiedzia\u0142 mi wprost: \u201eje\u015bli dalej b\u0119dziesz pod\u0105\u017ca\u0142 t\u0105 drog\u0105, to reszt\u0119 swojego \u017cycia sp\u0119dzisz w wi\u0119zieniu!\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"bodytext\"><span lang=\"PL\">Decyzje, kt\u00f3re podejmowa\u0142em, wynika\u0142y z mojego uzale\u017cnienia od seksu. Seks, kt\u00f3ry pocz\u0105tkowo dawa\u0142 mi pocieszenie, wkr\u00f3tce uwi\u0119zi\u0142 mnie i zacz\u0105\u0142 niszczy\u0107 nie tylko moje \u017cycie, ale tak\u017ce \u017cycie tych, kt\u00f3rzy znajdowali si\u0119 wko\u0142o mnie. Podobnie jak ka\u017cde inne uzale\u017cnienie, moje uzale\u017cnienie prowadzi\u0142o mnie do samozniszczenia.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"bodytext\"><span lang=\"PL\">Podczas mszy \u015bw. p\u0142aka\u0142em i prosi\u0142em Boga aby mi pom\u00f3g\u0142 i zmi\u0142owa\u0142 si\u0119 nade mn\u0105. Zna\u0142em chrze\u015bcijan i dzi\u0119ki \u015bwiadectwu ich \u017cycia, a tak\u017ce dzi\u0119ki lekturze Biblii, w moje \u017cycie wkroczy\u0142a nadzieja. W tym czasie u\u015bwiadomi\u0142em sobie, \u017ce B\u00f3g kocha mnie takiego, jakim jestem. Od tego momentu rozpocz\u0105\u0142 si\u0119 powolny proces mojego uzdrowienia i chocia\u017c do\u015bwiadczy\u0142em kilku upadk\u00f3w, by\u0142a to jedyna droga wyj\u015bcia z uzale\u017cnienia i samozniszczenia. Nauczy\u0142em si\u0119 rozumie\u0107, \u017ce jestem kochany i \u017ce B\u00f3g stworzy\u0142 seksualno\u015b\u0107 aby by\u0142a ona czym\u015b pi\u0119knym i dobrym oraz by przynosi\u0142a rado\u015b\u0107 i prawdziwe spe\u0142nienie. Seks staje si\u0119 niszcz\u0105cy w\u00f3wczas, gdy nie jest prze\u017cywany zgodnie z Bo\u017cymi nakazami \u2013 tak samo jak woda staje si\u0119 niszcz\u0105ca kiedy wyst\u0119puje z brzeg\u00f3w i przeradza si\u0119 w pow\u00f3d\u017a. Na ko\u0144cu opisu aktu stworzenia powiedziano: \u201eA B\u00f3g widzia\u0142, \u017ce wszystko, co uczyni\u0142, by\u0142o bardzo dobre\u201d! (Rdz 1, 31). Poj\u0119cie \u201ewszystko\u201d zawiera w sobie r\u00f3wnie\u017c seksualno\u015b\u0107.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"bodytext\"><span lang=\"PL\">Obecnie jestem szcz\u0119\u015bliwym i wolnym od uzale\u017cnienia m\u0119\u017cem (od 16 lat) oraz ojcem jednej c\u00f3rki. Seksualno\u015b\u0107 jest pi\u0119kn\u0105 cz\u0119\u015bci\u0105 mojego \u017cycia, jednak nie ma ona wp\u0142ywu na podejmowane przeze mnie decyzje.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"bodytext\"><span lang=\"PL\">Odkrycie mojego \u017cycia jest nast\u0119puj\u0105ce: B\u00f3g uzdrawia niew\u0142a\u015bciwie prze\u017cywan\u0105 seksualno\u015b\u0107, poniewa\u017c daje on mi\u0142o\u015b\u0107 i przebaczenie poprzez swojego syna Jezusa Chrystusa. B\u00f3g m\u00f3wi TAK nam i naszej seksualno\u015bci. Dla Boga seksualno\u015b\u0107 nigdy nie by\u0142a ska\u017cona ani brudna. Bo\u017ce zamys\u0142y by\u0142y dobre od samego pocz\u0105tku. Niew\u0142a\u015bciwe prze\u017cywanie seksualno\u015bci ka\u017cdorazowo jest rezultatem wykroczenia przeciwko Bo\u017cym nakazom oraz intencjom.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"bodytext\">Konstantin, 53 lata.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<footer>\n<div class=\"container\">\n<div class=\"row footer-border\">\n<div class=\"col-md-6 col-sm-6\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/footer>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Konstant\u012bns Story na seksualno\u015bci, Drive, komfortu i spe\u0142nienia<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":3804,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[180],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO Premium plugin v22.1 (Yoast SEO v22.1) - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Konstantin - LOVE IS MORE (Polski)<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Konstant\u012bns Story na seksualno\u015bci, Drive, komfortu i spe\u0142nienia\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.safersurfing.org\/loveismore-pl\/konstantin\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"pl_PL\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Konstantin\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Konstant\u012bns Story na seksualno\u015bci, Drive, komfortu i spe\u0142nienia\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/www.safersurfing.org\/loveismore-pl\/konstantin\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"LOVE IS MORE (Polski)\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:publisher\" content=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/loveismore.org\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:published_time\" content=\"2018-09-05T13:40:57+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:modified_time\" content=\"2018-12-17T09:14:18+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:image\" content=\"https:\/\/www.safersurfing.org\/loveismore-pl\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/25\/2018\/09\/ihor_malytskyi_unsplash_800_500.jpg\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:width\" content=\"800\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:height\" content=\"500\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:type\" content=\"image\/jpeg\" \/>\n<meta name=\"author\" content=\"Katharina\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary_large_image\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"Napisane przez\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"Katharina\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:label2\" content=\"Szacowany czas czytania\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data2\" content=\"3 minuty\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\/\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"WebPage\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.safersurfing.org\/loveismore-pl\/konstantin\/\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/www.safersurfing.org\/loveismore-pl\/konstantin\/\",\"name\":\"Konstantin - 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