{"id":3503,"date":"2018-09-05T15:40:57","date_gmt":"2018-09-05T13:40:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.safersurfing.org\/loveismore-en\/?p=3503"},"modified":"2018-12-17T12:33:31","modified_gmt":"2018-12-17T10:33:31","slug":"konstantin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.safersurfing.org\/loveismore-ro\/konstantin\/","title":{"rendered":"Konstantin"},"content":{"rendered":"

Apetitul meu sexual s-a dezvoltat \u00eenc\u0103 de la o v\u00e2rst\u0103 foarte fraged\u0103 \u0219i a devenit consolarea \u0219i \u00eemplinirea mea<\/h4>\n

Pe c\u00e2nd m-am n\u0103scut eu, p\u0103rin\u021bii mei erau deja divor\u021ba\u021bi. Alcoolul \u0219i escapadele tat\u0103lui meu erau \u00eenso\u021bitori permanen\u021bi ai familiei noastre. La c\u00e2\u021biva ani dup\u0103 na\u0219terea mea p\u0103rin\u021bii mei au \u00eencetat s\u0103 mai aib\u0103 vreun contact – a\u0219a a \u00eenceput via\u021ba mea. Cur\u00e2nd dup\u0103 aceea am fost l\u0103sat \u00een diferite case de copii.\u00a0 Apetitul meu sexual s-a dezvoltat \u00eenc\u0103 de la o v\u00e2rst\u0103 foarte fraged\u0103 \u0219i a devenit consolarea \u0219i \u00eemplinirea mea. Am \u00eenceput s\u0103 cump\u0103r \u0219i s\u0103 colec\u021bionez pornografie.<\/p>\n

Ca \u0219i adolescent am comis mai multe acte criminale cum ar fi furturi, spargeri \u0219i \u00een\u0219el\u0103torii iar dup\u0103 o urmarire na\u021bional\u0103 am ajuns chiar \u0219i pe primele pagini din pres\u0103. Au urmat ani petrecu\u021bi \u00een diferite \u00eenchisori iar prin anii 70 un judec\u0103tor mi-a spus direct \u00een fa\u021b\u0103: „Dac\u0103 o s\u0103 continui pe acest drum, o s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi petreci restul vie\u021bii \u00een \u00eenchisoare!”<\/p>\n

O afirma\u021bie adev\u0103rat\u0103.<\/p>\n

Deciziile mele erau influen\u021bate foarte mult de dependen\u021ba de sex. Sexul, care ini\u021bial m-a consolat, \u00een cur\u00e2nd m-a capturat \u0219i a luat dimensiuni periculoase care au distrus nu numai via\u021ba mea, ci \u0219i via\u021ba celor din jurul meu. Ca \u0219i oricare alt\u0103 dependen\u021b\u0103 \u0219i aceasta conducea spre autodistrugere.<\/p>\n

\u00cen mijlocul acestui dezastru am cerut ajutorul \u0219i mila lui Dumnezeu.\u00a0 Am cunoscut cre\u0219tini iar prin vie\u021bile lor \u0219i citind Biblia, speran\u021ba a intrat \u00een via\u021ba mea. \u00cen acel moment mi-am dat seama ca Dumnezeu m\u0103 iube\u0219te a\u0219a cum sunt. De atunci \u00eencolo a \u00eenceput un proces lent de vindecare \u0219i cu toate c\u0103 am avut c\u00e2teva regrese, aceasta a fost singura cale de a sc\u0103pa de dependen\u021b\u0103 \u0219i autodistrugere.\u00a0 Am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleg c\u0103 sunt iubit \u0219i c\u0103 Dumnezeu a creat sexualitatea drept ceva frumos \u0219i bun care s\u0103 aduc\u0103 bucurie \u0219i \u00eemplinire. Sexul devine distructiv numai atunci c\u00e2nd nu are loc \u00een parametrii da\u021bi de Dumnezeu – la fel ca \u0219i apa care devine distrug\u0103toare atunci c\u00e2nd se revars\u0103 peste mal \u0219i provoac\u0103 inunda\u021bii. Dup\u0103 facerea lumii, Biblia zice:
\n„\u0218i a privit Dumnezeu toate c\u00e2te a f\u0103cut \u0219i iat\u0103 erau bune foarte”! (Geneza 1:31). „Toate” \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 Dumnezeu a inclus \u0219i sexualitatea.<\/p>\n

Acum sunt fericit, sunt c\u0103s\u0103torit de 16 ani, sunt tat\u0103l unei feti\u021be \u0219i nu mai sunt dependent. Azi sexualitatea este o parte frumoas\u0103 \u00een via\u021ba mea, dar nu \u00eemi mai influen\u021beaz\u0103 deciziile.<\/p>\n

Ceea ce am \u00een\u021beles eu pentru via\u021ba mea este: Dumnezeu ne t\u0103m\u0103duie\u0219te \u0219i izb\u0103ve\u0219te de sexualitatea distrug\u0103toare, deoarece ne d\u0103ruie\u0219te dragoste \u0219i iertare prin Fiul S\u0103u, Isus Hristos. El ne spune DA, nou\u0103 \u0219i sexualit\u0103\u021bii noastre. Pentru Dumnezeu, sexualitatea nu a fost niciodat\u0103 vicioas\u0103 sau murdar\u0103. G\u00e2ndurile Lui au fost bune \u00eenc\u0103 de la \u00eenceput. Oric\u00e2nd lucrurile se \u00eenr\u0103ut\u0103\u021besc, acesta este rezultatul direct al neglij\u0103rii instruc\u021biunilor Lui sau al abuzului Binelui pe care ni l-a oferit.<\/p>\n

\u00cens\u0103 Dumnezeu a spus DA nou\u0103 \u0219i sexualit\u0103\u021bii noastre \u0219i r\u0103m\u00e2ne DA.<\/p>\n

Alois, 53 de ani.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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