{"id":3507,"date":"2018-09-05T15:44:11","date_gmt":"2018-09-05T13:44:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.safersurfing.org\/loveismore-en\/?p=3507"},"modified":"2018-12-17T12:31:57","modified_gmt":"2018-12-17T10:31:57","slug":"pornography-an-issue-only-for-men","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.safersurfing.org\/loveismore-ro\/pornography-an-issue-only-for-men\/","title":{"rendered":"Susanne – Cercul vicios al pornografiei"},"content":{"rendered":"

Pornografia – un subiect doar pentru b\u0103rba\u021bi?<\/h4>\n

Calea de sc\u0103pare de vinov\u0103\u021bie<\/p>\n

Am c\u0103zut din \u00eent\u00e2mplare \u00een capcanele pornografiei la v\u00e2rsta de 12 ani, v\u00e2rst\u0103 la care cei mai mul\u021bi dintre tineri se confrunt\u0103 cu tulbur\u0103ri interioare! F\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 am vreun habar despre ceea ce implica acest fapt, am fost \u00eent\u00e2i \u0219ocat\u0103 \u0219i \u00een acela\u0219i timp fascinat\u0103 de ceea ce am descoperit, sim\u021bind \u00een\u0103untrul meu o senza\u021bie pl\u0103cut\u0103, dar care \u00een acela\u0219i timp m\u0103 f\u0103cea s\u0103 m\u0103 ru\u0219inez. \u00a0Tocmai aceast\u0103 ru\u0219ine m-a facut s\u0103 m\u0103 izolez. \u00centotdeauna am putut vorbi despre orice cu mama mea dar pornografia \u0219i masturbarea erau subiecte tabu pentru mine. Dac\u0103 mama ar fi aflat despre toate acestea, a\u0219 fi murit de ru\u0219ine \u00een adev\u0103ratul sens al cuv\u00e2ntului.<\/p>\n

Sentimentul de ru\u0219ine a crescut deoarece credeam \u00een Isus \u00eenc\u0103 de pe c\u00e2nd aveam 6 ani \u0219i dintotdeauna fusesem activ\u0103 \u00een biserica mea. Eram sigur\u0103 c\u0103 sunt bolnav\u0103 pentru c\u0103 doar b\u0103rba\u021bii erau cei care aveau probleme cu pornografia. Credeam ca eram singura femeie „pervers\u0103.”<\/p>\n

C\u00e2nd primeam complimente pentru aspectul meu fizic nu eram \u00een stare s\u0103 le accept sau s\u0103 cred c\u0103 erau adev\u0103rate. \u00cen loc de aceasta g\u00e2ndeam: „Dac\u0103 oamenii ar \u0219ti cu adev\u0103rat cum sunt, nu mi-ar mai face complimente”. Era un cerc vicios: Am \u00eencercat s\u0103 m\u0103 confrunt cu sentimentele mele de ru\u0219ine \u0219i tensiune dar acest fapt m-a condus spre masturbare \u0219i spre lumea fanteziilor erotice. Lumea aceasta a fanteziilor este tipic\u0103 pentru femeile care citesc romane cu scene de dragoste explicite \u0219i care astfel consum\u0103 mai mult\u0103 pornografie dec\u00e2t \u00ee\u0219i dau seama. Dependen\u021ba nu se define\u0219te doar prin consumul de pornografie hardcore, ci \u0219i prin masturbare \u0219i pierderea de sine \u00een fantezii erotice.<\/p>\n

Vindecarea mea a \u00eenceput atunci c\u00e2nd am \u00eenceput s\u0103 vorbesc sincer cu Dumnezeu despre problema mea. Con\u0219tientizarea faptului c\u0103 Isus a murit pentru to\u0219i mi-a dat puterea s\u0103 m\u0103 deschid \u00een fa\u021ba unei prietene. Prietenia noastr\u0103 nu s-a terminat, ci a devenit mai ad\u00e2nc\u0103 \u0219i mai semnificativ\u0103. Aceast\u0103 prieten\u0103 a fost cea care, de c\u00e2te ori \u00eencercam s\u0103 ating ceva doar pe puterile mele, mereu \u00eemi amintea c\u0103 este o gre\u0219eal\u0103 pe care mul\u021bi o fac, atunci c\u00e2nd vor s\u0103 ias\u0103 din cercul vicios al pornografiei. Se roag\u0103 lui Dumnezeu s\u0103 le dea mai mult\u0103 putere pentru a rezista tenta\u021biei \u0219i se mir\u0103 de ce nu func\u021bioneaz\u0103. Am \u00eencercat \u0219i eu acela\u0219i lucru, \u00een zadar.<\/p>\n

Am g\u0103sit r\u0103d\u0103cinile p\u0103catului meu atunci c\u00e2nd am c\u0103l\u0103torit \u00eenspre „mine-\u00eens\u0103mi”, \u00een interiorul meu. Am crescut \u00eentr-un mediu ocrotit \u00een care rar au avut loc ne\u00een\u021belegeri sau certuri, de aceea niciodat\u0103 nu am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat s\u0103 m\u0103 confrunt cu sentimentele mele negative.\u00a0Am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat s\u0103 \u00eemi exprim dezacordul \u00eentr-un mod adecvat \u00een loc de a m\u0103 \u00eenchide \u00een mine, a\u0219a cum obi\u0219nuiam \u00eenainte \u00een situa\u021bii de conflict. Abia atunci c\u00e2nd am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat s\u0103 iert \u0219i s\u0103 accept iertarea \u0219i mi-am permis s\u0103 \u00eenchei prietenii, tensiunea mea interioar\u0103 s-a diminuat. Dovada vindec\u0103rii mele este faptul c\u0103 nu \u00eemi mai este ru\u0219ine pentru ceea ce am f\u0103cut.<\/p>\n

Apropo, acum \u0219i mama mea \u0219tie tot. Mi-am dat seama \u00een ultimii ani c\u0103 nu sunt singura femeie care a avut probleme cu pornografia, cu toate c\u0103 se dau doar exemple de b\u0103rba\u021bi atunci c\u00e2nd se vorbe\u0219te despre acest subiect. Vreau s\u0103 spun tuturor femeilor care sunt afectate c\u0103 exist\u0103 o cale de a rupe lan\u021bul ru\u0219inii. Vor veni \u0219i vremurile \u00een care femeile vor putea s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i tr\u0103iasc\u0103 libere feminitatea, dup\u0103 cum Dumnezeu a prev\u0103zut ini\u021bial.<\/p>\n

Ulrike (40 de ani)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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