{"id":3570,"date":"2018-09-10T12:44:04","date_gmt":"2018-09-10T10:44:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.safersurfing.org\/loveismore-en\/?p=3570"},"modified":"2018-11-28T17:28:53","modified_gmt":"2018-11-28T15:28:53","slug":"ce-este-dependenta-sexuala","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.safersurfing.org\/loveismore-ro\/ce-este-dependenta-sexuala\/","title":{"rendered":"Ce este dependen\u021ba sexual\u0103?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"bodytext\">1. Dependen\u021ba sexual\u0103 este un p\u0103cat ales de bun\u0103 voie. Persoana care intr\u0103 \u00een capcana dependen\u021bei de sex a ales \u00een mod inten\u021bionat s\u0103 se consoleze \u00een destr\u0103b\u0103lare sau imoralitate sexual\u0103. Nimeni nu \u00eel oblig\u0103 pe cel care lupt\u0103 \u00eempotriva dependen\u021bei sexuale s\u0103 bea mereu din izvorul destr\u0103b\u0103l\u0103rii. Orice fel de sex \u00een afara c\u0103sniciei cu un b\u0103rbat sau cu o femeie este p\u0103cat, la fel cum sunt \u0219i g\u00e2ndurile destr\u0103b\u0103late \u00een inim\u0103.<\/p>\n<p class=\"bodytext\">2. Dependen\u021ba sexual\u0103 este o sclavie pentru obsesiile \u0219i dorin\u021bele nest\u0103p\u00e2nite ale desfr\u00e2ului. Pornografia \u0219i imoralitateaa sexual\u0103 golesc sufletul; cu c\u00e2t cineva se ocup\u0103 mai mult cu pornografia \u0219i masturbarea, cu at\u00e2t mai gol devine. Cu timpul, desfr\u00e2ul devine o obsesie care \u00eel transform\u0103 pe dependentul sexual \u00eentr-un nebun care caut\u0103 disperat fantezii maxime sau experien\u021be sexuale. Chiar dac\u0103 \u00eel face s\u0103 se simt\u0103 viu, desfr\u00e2ul \u00ee\u0219i las\u0103 victima goal\u0103, mizerabil\u0103 \u0219i plin\u0103 de ru\u0219ine.<\/p>\n<p class=\"bodytext\">3. Dependen\u021ba de sex este un mecanism fals de ap\u0103rare. Dependentul\u00a0 folose\u0219te fanteziile sexuale ca un mecanism de ap\u0103rare pentru a se izola de datoriile vie\u021bii reale; atunci c\u00e2nd situa\u021biile nu decurg dup\u0103 cum crede el c\u0103 ar trebui, el caut\u0103 calea de sc\u0103pare \u0219i consolarea \u00een sex. Destr\u0103b\u0103larea nu aduce nici consolare nici sc\u0103pare, ci chiar \u00eenr\u0103ut\u0103\u021be\u0219te via\u021ba, adun\u00e2nd mai mult\u0103 ru\u0219ine, mizerie \u0219i goliciune.<\/p>\n<p class=\"bodytext\">4. Dependen\u021ba de sex este dragoste fals\u0103. Ad\u00e2nc \u00een inima lui, dependentul crede c\u0103 nu poate fi iubit a\u0219a cum e el, a\u0219a c\u0103 se \u00eentoarce la desfr\u00e2u pentru a g\u0103si dragoste, consolare \u0219i aprobare.<\/p>\n<p class=\"bodytext\">5. Dependen\u021ba de sex este un \u00eenlocuitor nes\u0103n\u0103tos pentru dragostea lui Dumnezeu. \u00cenc\u0103 de la na\u0219tere avem o foame de Dumnezeu; r\u00e2vnim dup\u0103 dragostea, \u00eendurarea, acceptarea, bucuria \u0219i pacea Lui. Dependentul de sex nu crede c\u0103 Dumnezeul cel Viu \u00eel accept\u0103, a\u0219a c\u0103 poart\u0103 o masc\u0103 pentru a ascunde cine este cu adev\u0103rat. Poate c\u0103 \u0219tie teologia milosteniei, dar dependentul de sex niciodat\u0103 nu a acceptat \u00een inima sa darul \u00eendur\u0103rii lui Dumnezeu. Faptele sale sunt o dovad\u0103 pentru aceasta, pentru c\u0103 ceea ce facem arat\u0103 ceea ce credem.<\/p>\n<p class=\"bodytext\">6. Dependen\u021ba sexual\u0103 este otrav\u0103 spiritual\u0103, emo\u021bional\u0103 \u0219i psihologic\u0103. Gole\u0219te sufletul omului \u0219i \u00eel transform\u0103 \u00eentr-un nebun \u00eenrobit \u0219i disperat. Distruge b\u0103rba\u021bi, femei \u0219i copii; c\u0103snicii \u0219i familii. Desfr\u00e2ul distruge biserica din\u0103untru \u00een afar\u0103, dup\u0103 cum \u0219tim din istorie, poate distruge \u0219i un neam \u00eentreg.<\/p>\n<p class=\"bodytext\">7. Dependen\u021ba de sex se transform\u0103 \u00eentr-un idol c\u0103ruia ne \u00eenchin\u0103m. B\u0103rbatul sau femeia care se \u00eenchin\u0103 dumnezeului fals al pl\u0103cerii, \u00eel transform\u0103 pe acesta \u00een obiectul \u00eenchin\u0103ciunii, \u00een izvorul vie\u021bii lor. Adoratul nostru devine st\u0103p\u00e2nul nostru.<\/p>\n<p class=\"bodytext\">Un cre\u0219tin care este dependent sexual este cineva care \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 ob\u021bin\u0103 at\u00e2t falsa consolare prin pl\u0103cere c\u00e2t \u0219i dragostea lui Dumnezeu. Rela\u021bia sa cu Dumnezeu devine cel mult una c\u0103ldu\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dependen\u021ba sexual\u0103 este o sclavie pentru obsesiile \u0219i dorin\u021bele nest\u0103p\u00e2nite ale desfr\u00e2ului. 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