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MU\u017dI, T\u00da S\u00da FAKTY<\/h2>\n

1. V\u0161etci sa radi d\u00edvame na nah\u00e9 \u017eeny.<\/p>\n

2. V\u0161etci sme videli nah\u00e9 \u017eeny.<\/p>\n

3. V\u0161etci vieme, kde m\u00f4\u017eeme n\u00e1js\u0165 obr\u00e1zky nah\u00fdch \u017eien.<\/p>\n

Ot\u00e1zkou je, \u010do urob\u00edte s t\u00fdmito faktami? Jednoducho ich m\u00f4\u017eeme prija\u0165 a podda\u0165 sa svojmu telu, alebo m\u00f4\u017eeme \u017ei\u0165 bez\u00fahonn\u00fdm \u017eivotom a vyhn\u00fa\u0165 sa os\u00eddlam a pasc\u00e1m pornografie na internete. Je to boj ka\u017ed\u00e9ho mu\u017ea.<\/p>\n

1. fakt<\/b><\/p>\n

\u017deny s\u00fa kr\u00e1sne, preto\u017ee Boh ich takto stvoril. Prirodzene n\u00e1s to k nim tiahne. Ak to nie je tak, potom pravdepodobne potrebujete in\u00fa webov\u00fa str\u00e1nku, ktor\u00e1 v\u00e1m pom\u00f4\u017ee s t\u00fdmto probl\u00e9mom. V\u0161etk\u00fdch z n\u00e1s, ktor\u00fdch pri\u0165ahuj\u00fa \u017eeny, potrebujeme vn\u00edma\u0165 \u017eensk\u00fa kr\u00e1su v spr\u00e1vnej perspekt\u00edve. Na\u0161e telo toti\u017e chce prekr\u00fati\u0165 a zni\u010di\u0165 najlep\u0161\u00ed Bo\u017e\u00ed pl\u00e1n pre vz\u0165ahy medzi mu\u017emi a \u017eenami. Boh nestvoril \u017eeny preto, aby sme klikli na webov\u00fa str\u00e1nku s \u00faboh\u00fdm a podradn\u00fdm dizajnom a pozerali sa na ich nahotu. \u017densk\u00e9 telo nesformoval nato, aby sme mesa\u010dne zaplatili 3,95 dol\u00e1ra a mohli sa pozera\u0165 na nechutn\u00e9 obr\u00e1zky. Bo\u017e\u00ed pl\u00e1n je ove\u013ea v\u00e4\u010d\u0161\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Mus\u00edte pochopi\u0165, \u017ee pr\u00ed\u0165a\u017elivos\u0165 poch\u00e1dza z Bo\u017eieho srdca, ale \u017eiadostivos\u0165 z na\u0161ich s\u0155dc.<\/p>\n

2. fakt<\/b><\/p>\n

V poriadku chlapi… i ke\u010f si tam st\u00e1le chod\u00edte posedie\u0165, hovor\u00edte, \u017ee nikdy ste nie\u010do tak\u00e9 nepozerali. \u0164a\u017eko uveri\u0165 ko\u013eko mu\u017eov st\u00e1le hovor\u00ed o tomto probl\u00e9me ako o \u201eprobl\u00e9me in\u00fdch mu\u017eov\u201c. Vyzer\u00e1 to takto: \u201eM\u00f4j priate\u013e Jeff… Viem, \u017ee zvykol ma\u0165 probl\u00e9m s t\u00fdmto.\u201c Nem\u00f4\u017eeme sa v\u0161etci jednoducho zhodn\u00fa\u0165 na tom, \u017ee sme sa pozerali na nah\u00e9 \u017eeny a \u017ee sa chceme na ne pozera\u0165?<\/p>\n

3. fakt<\/b><\/p>\n

Toto je p\u00e1dny argument. Zhodli sme sa na fakte, \u017ee sa na to radi pozer\u00e1me. A nakoniec, pravdou je, \u017ee vieme, kde m\u00f4\u017eeme n\u00e1js\u0165 viac obr\u00e1zkov. Stru\u010dne, je to probl\u00e9m. \u010co s t\u00fdm urob\u00edme? Hne\u010f teraz urobte vo svojom \u017eivote bezpe\u010dnostn\u00e9 opatrenia! Nedovo\u013ete viac, aby to bolo tajomstvom. Bu\u010fte \u00faprimn\u00ed a presta\u0148te sa zahr\u00e1va\u0165 so svojou bez\u00fahonnos\u0165ou a bud\u00facnos\u0165ou. N\u00e1jdite si nejak\u00fdch partnerov, ktor\u00fdm budete z\u00fa\u010dtovate\u013en\u00ed, a za\u010dnite otvorene a \u010destne hovori\u0165 o t\u00fdchto veciach. Fakty hovoria samy za seba. Teraz, mu\u017ei, je \u010das, aby sme povstali a stali sa vodcami, ak\u00fdmi n\u00e1s Boh povolal, aby sme boli.<\/p>\n

Porno je lo\u017e. Pok\u00fa\u0161a sa v\u00e1m poveda\u0165, ako by ste mali sex vn\u00edma\u0165, ako by mal p\u00f4sobi\u0165 a vyzera\u0165. Porno je v\u0161ak fant\u00e1zia, ktor\u00e1 m\u00e1 len jeden cie\u013e \u2013 udr\u017ea\u0165 v\u00e1s pr\u00edstupn\u00fdch pre sam\u00fdch seba. Zni\u010d\u00ed vz\u0165ahy okolo v\u00e1s a vy sa stiahnete kv\u00f4li svojmu mal\u00e9mu \u0161pinav\u00e9mu tajomstvu. Ak konzumujete porno, stane sa va\u0161\u00edm \u017eivotom a strat\u00edte vlastn\u00fa v\u00f4\u013eu nad z\u00e1vislos\u0165ou. Zatavte sa teraz. Urobte to. Urobte to pre svoju man\u017eelku. Pre svoje deti. Urobte to preto, \u017ee je to spr\u00e1vne.<\/p>\n

Pr\u00edbeh Carla<\/p>\n

Som mlad\u00fd mu\u017e a nav\u0161tevoval som debaty o porne s vami a Jeremym. Odvtedy si uvedomujem, \u010do som c\u00edtil u\u017e pred t\u00fdm ve\u010derom \u2013 pornografia \u010dloveka znecitlivie. To, o \u010dom fantaz\u00edrujete po\u010das \u201esedenia\u201c a to, \u010do sa odohr\u00e1va vo va\u0161ej sp\u00e1lni s man\u017eelom\/man\u017eelkou, s\u00fa dve \u00faplne odli\u0161n\u00e9 veci. Pok\u00fa\u0161al som sa nahovori\u0165 svoju priate\u013eku, aby v tom zohrala nejak\u00fa \u00falohu, ale pre oboch to bolo ve\u013emi tr\u00e1pne. V\u017edy ke\u010f sme mali spolu sexu\u00e1lny pomer, musel som zatvori\u0165 o\u010di a predstavi\u0165 si in\u00fa situ\u00e1ciu, ktor\u00e1 prebiehala v mojej fant\u00e1zii a nez\u00e1le\u017eiac na tom, \u010do to bolo, v\u017edy ma to priviedlo k orgazmu. Ke\u010f som bol s \u0148ou bez fantaz\u00edrovania \u2013 nefungovalo to.<\/p>\n

Napokon som sa dostal do stavu, ke\u010f som u\u017e nemohol ma\u0165 s \u0148ou sex bez toho, aby som nezapol porno alebo nie\u010do, \u010do silne preb\u00fadzalo moju fant\u00e1ziu\/predstavivos\u0165. Porno vlastne skazilo m\u00f4j sexu\u00e1lny \u017eivot a st\u00e1lo ma aj n\u00e1\u0161 vz\u0165ah, lebo pred dvoma t\u00fd\u017ed\u0148ami sme sa rozi\u0161li.<\/p>\n

Chcel by som vlastne iba po\u010fakova\u0165, \u017ee ste povedali nie\u010do, o \u010dom som posledn\u00fd mesiac \u010di dva prem\u00fd\u0161\u013eal. Objasnilo mi to niektor\u00e9 z mojich probl\u00e9mov. Budem na tom pracova\u0165, aby sa to zmenilo. Rad\u0161ej chcem dosiahnu\u0165 orgazmus s k\u00fdmko\u013evek som, akoby som si mal vytv\u00e1ra\u0165 niekoho vo svojej fant\u00e1zii.<\/p>\n

\u010eakujem.<\/p>\n

Carl<\/p>\n

\u010eal\u0161ie kroky k o\u010disteniu<\/p>\n

Pr\u00edslovia 28,13: \u201eTen, kto zakr\u00fdva svoje previnenia, nebude ma\u0165 \u00faspech, kto v\u0161ak ich vyzn\u00e1 a opust\u00ed, d\u00f4jde milosrdenstva.\u201c Prv\u00e1 vec, ktor\u00fa mus\u00edte urobi\u0165, je zlo\u017ei\u0165 opicu zo svojho chrbta. Obr\u00e1\u0165te sa tv\u00e1rou k Bohu, dajte mu najavo, \u017ee ste pripraven\u00fd pre zmenu a povedzte o tom aj inej osobe.<\/p>\n

Jakub 5,16: \u201ePreto si vyzn\u00e1vajte navz\u00e1jom hriechy a navz\u00e1jom sa modlite za seba, aby ste sa vylie\u010dili.\u201c N\u00e1jdite si priate\u013ea, pastora, anonymn\u00fa skupinu, poradcu alebo vodcu cirkvi a otvorte svoje \u00fasta, aby ste dostali tajomstvo von.<\/p>\n

Vydr\u017ete<\/p>\n

Jakub 1,4: \u201eAle vytrvalos\u0165 nech je dokonal\u00e1 v skutku, aby ste boli dokonal\u00ed a cel\u00ed bez \u00fahony, aby ste v ni\u010dom nemali nedostatok.\u201c Na tejto veci budete musie\u0165 pracova\u0165. Mo\u017eno znamen\u00e1, \u017ee sa budete musie\u0165 pripoji\u0165 ku skupine Life Ministries alebo inej anonymnej skupine. V krajine sa nach\u00e1dza ve\u013ek\u00fd po\u010det skup\u00edn s Programom 12 krokov, ktor\u00e9 sa venuj\u00fa z\u00e1vislosti od sexu a pornografie a mno\u017estvo in\u00fdch kres\u0165ansk\u00fdch programov. Mo\u017eno sa budete musie\u0165 zapoji\u0165 do rehabilita\u010dn\u00e9ho programu alebo pripoji\u0165 sa k on-line skupine, ktor\u00e9 sa zotavuje. Mo\u017eno sa budete modli\u0165 a padnete na tv\u00e1r pred Bohom, ale mus\u00edte vydr\u017ea\u0165 a nesmiete presta\u0165 pracova\u0165 na svojom zotavovan\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Bu\u010fte z\u00fa\u010dtovate\u013en\u00fd<\/p>\n

Gala\u0165anom 6,1-2: \u201eBratia, ak by niekoho aj pristihli pri nejakom poklesku, vy, duchovn\u00ed, napravte ho v duchu tichosti – a daj si pozor, aby si aj ty nepadol do poku\u0161enia. Jedni druh\u00fdch bremen\u00e1 zn\u00e1\u0161ajte, a tak napln\u00edte z\u00e1kon Kristov.\u201c V\u00e1\u0161 probl\u00e9m s pornografiou sa dostane na prav\u00e9 miesto, ak budete niekomu z\u00fa\u010dtovate\u013en\u00fd. Mus\u00edte dovoli\u0165, aby va\u0161e spr\u00e1vanie kontroloval v\u00e1\u0161 bl\u00edzky priate\u013e alebo partner, ktor\u00e9mu budete z\u00fa\u010dtovate\u013en\u00fd. To neznamen\u00e1 n\u00e1hodn\u00e9ho cudzieho \u010dloveka alebo anonymn\u00e9ho \u010dloveka na internete. Hovor\u00edme o niekom z v\u00e1\u0161ho bezprostredn\u00e9ho okruhu \u013eud\u00ed. T\u00e1to osoba v\u00e1m pom\u00f4\u017ee, ke\u010f budete pre\u017e\u00edva\u0165 \u0165a\u017ek\u00fd \u010das a bude sa s vami te\u0161i\u0165 aj z \u00faspechov. Mus\u00ed to by\u0165 v\u0161ak tv\u00e1rou tv\u00e1r a \u010dasto.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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