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My husband watches porn

Posts for Partners of Porn Consumers

Healing a broken marriage

Picture taking a 9" stiletto knife, and then plunging into your wife's back, all the way to the hilt. Then as she screams in pain and horror at the recognition that you, her best friend have stabbed her, you say "I'm sorry. Can you please get over this quickly?"

The destructive force of adultry

I had been binging on porn daily, and had lost all control to stop. Prior to getting married in 1989, I'd assumed that having marital sex would resolve my problem with lust, but a year into our marriage I succumbed to the pull again.

Help for wives

You asked me to write a letter about how your addiction affected me. At the time, things were a bit hazy and I was young and didn’t know what to think of everything. It really flared my insecurities up.

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First Aid

Always be sure of this: It is not your responsibility. No matter how many questions and doupts are racing through your head, as much as it hurts: Your worth still upholds, you are utterly enough. It is not your fault!

You don’t have to fight on your own.

Look for selfhelpgroups in your area and find companions on your journey. There is even the possibility to start your own group. Don’t hesitate, this will change everything!

Are you interested in founding a new selfhelpgroup:

E-mail us with name and place and we can help you find others.

Austria

Selfhelpgroups (SHGs) for partners:

LOVE IS MORE Wien E-Mail.
LOVE IS MORE Steyr E-Mail.

Planned SHGs:

None at the moment.

Germany

Selfhelpgroubs (SHG) for partners:

Return Hannover  E-Mail.

Planned SHGs:

LOVE IS MORE Neviges near Düsseldorf E-Mail.
LOVE IS MORE Pening near Chemnitz E-Mail.

Schweiz

Selfhelpgroups (SHG) for partners:

None at the moment.

Planned SHGs:

None at the moment.

Don’t forget: This is not the end. There is always hope and a way out of the situation. You are not alone, many others had to face this battle. Many stories of healing and freedom testify it and shall encourage you to not yet give up. Find support and material to continue this journey. God loves marriage and He loves your marriage.